Talk presented March 7, 2020, in Joplin Stake Conference:
Life is beautiful … Life is amazing … Life is hard … Life is Challenging …
Life can be
a really tough row to hoe!
Priesthood leaders on the Stake sugar beet farm in Granger posing with their work hoes, including Bro. Peterson, second from left; Dwayne Johnson; and Gordon Evans, second from right. |
When I was
in my early teens, we were often called to work on our stake welfare farms,
including planting tomatoes, harvesting tomatoes and picking corn. The hardest
assignment was weeding the sugar beets.
How many
have had that great opportunity?
How many
have ever seen a sugar beet?
John Havlicek of the Boston Celtics from 1962 to 1978. |
When I was
in 8th grade, my father had a personal chat with me about my future career
plans. I told him I was going to be a professional basketball player. I
pictured myself as the next John Havlicek of the Boston Celtics.
Mario Lanza, 1921-1959 |
The same year I was on West Lake Junior High basketball team, I was named the "Most Fit" in Coach Newton's gym classes. |
After a lot of practice and overcoming many injuries, my basketball career reached all the way up to – the last spot on the bench of our junior high basketball team.
And the pinnacle of my singing career was – high school madrigals and Concert Choir. I had a great time in both
Granger High School Madrigals 1967-68. I'm on the 2nd row, far right. |
That
something else was a career in writing and journalism, starting with our high
school newspaper, then as church mission public relations director, and then as
an editor of the BYU newspaper, which led to a 35-year career as an editor at
the daily newspaper, The Deseret News.
Sounds
simple enough, but actually that path was filled with challenges and adversity!
Elder Neal
A. Maxwell once said: “One’s life . . . cannot be both faith-filled and
stress-free. . . . Therefore, how can you and I really expect to glide
naively through life, as if to say, ”Lord, give me experience – but
not grief, not sorrow, not pain, not opposition, not betrayal, and certainly
not to be forsaken. Keep from me, Lord, all those experiences which made Thee
what Thou art! Then let me come and dwell with Thee and fully share Thy
joy!” (end quote)
The Lord
knows we need to experience the bad and the good in life as we climb that
figurative ladder back to him.
Growing up,
I had real trouble with my shoulders – which led to surgeries on both. But those
setbacks didn’t stop me from playing basketball as much as time would permit.
The large rock nicked my left-leg calf muscle, which put my leg into spasms and I was helped down! |
Elder Adhemar Damiani of the Seventy has said: “As part of our mortal probation, we pass through affliction, pain, and disappointment. Only in Jesus Christ can we find peace. … His gospel gives us the strength and the eternal perspective to face what is coming with good cheer.” (end quote)
Elder Hunt on crutches and left leg in full cast at San Jose, Costa Rica, airport set to fly home to Granger. |
Two things
happened to turn my hope into faith. The night before the surgery, I prayed
long and hard about my future. Was I going to survive? And if I survived, could
I make it without basketball and as an amputee? Finally, I received a spiritual assurance that
I had a good life ahead, even that I would eventually marry and have a family.
Elder Hunt standing in front of Pres. Milton E. Smith, left, and Elder Delbert L. Stapley of the Quorum of Twelve, and other missionaries in the San Jose area. |
Five years
later, the doctor who had performed the surgery, said he really hadn’t expected
me to survive. He credited Elder Stapley’s blessing for the miracle.
I soon was
back in school at BYU and receiving assistance from the Utah Division of
Rehabilitation, which made it possible for me to go on and earn my college diploma.
I was
blessed in many ways, but those college years and the ensuing couple of years were
really tough, emotionally. My self-esteem suffered, and I started my career at
Deseret News emotionally and spiritually low. What saved me was realizing that
I could actually change and repent. That I could break the chains Satan had
wrapped around me.
That spiritual reawakening came while reading Pres. Kimball’s book “The Miracle of Foregiveness” – that, along with getting involved in Young Adults, which is where I met Nancy. She was the one who helped me through the repentance process. Finally I had hope again – I had regained my eternal perspective.
The Lord
makes no secret that He will test our faith and our obedience. “We will prove
them herewith,” He said, “to see if they will do all things whatsoever the Lord
their God shall command them.”
Elder Dallin H. Oaks has said: “Most of us experience some measure of what the scriptures call ‘the furnace of affliction.’ Some are submerged in service to a disadvantaged family member. Others suffer the death of a loved one or the loss or postponement of a righteous goal like marriage or childbearing. Still others struggle with personal impairments or with feelings of rejection, inadequacy, or depression.
Pres. Dallin H. Oaks |
Father Lehi
promised his son Jacob that God would ‘consecrate [his] afflictions for
[his] gain.’
The Prophet
Joseph was promised that ‘thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small
moment; and then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on
high.’ (end quote)
Joseph Smith Jr. |
Enduring well means living faithfully despite our trials and misfortune. It means learning from these trials and experiences and thus becoming more like our Father in Heaven.
Eternal
perspective allows us to understand that if we endure well these things and
learn from them, then we can look forward to living with our Father in Heaven –
and even eventually living the kind of life that God lives! That’s a pretty
awesome promise!
Lee & Nancy Hunt |
Now, more than 60 years since that blessing from Elder Stapley, I’m still hanging on – married to my sweet Nancy for nearly 45 years, and treasuring my five children and 17 grandchildren. But I still have daily afflictions and challenges.
So, I pray
that we will hold on through our trials, become closer to our Father in Heaven
as we do so, and hold tight to our eternal perspective, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
These quotes I wasn’t able to use due to time constraints, but well worth review on the subject:
Pres. Russell M. Nelson |
Why does our
Father in Heaven allow these burdens?
Wouldn’t it
be nice to not have any? Life would be so easy – but would we learn anything if
life was all bliss?
Is there a reason
for life’s adversities?
Elder Quentin L. Cook |
Elder Quentin L. Cook has said: “Adversity should not be viewed as either disfavor from the Lord or a withdrawal of His blessings. Opposition in all things is part of the refiner’s fire to prepare us for an eternal celestial destiny.” (end quote)
And many of
these adversities and afflictions require us to turn away from sin and despair
and take hold of Christ’s Atoning Sacrifice through repentance.
Elder Bruce C. Hafen |
Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf testified: “… that when we
Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf |
embark upon or continue the incredible journey that leads to God, our lives will be better. This does not mean that our lives will be free from sorrow. We all know of faithful followers of Christ who suffer tragedy and injustice–Jesus Christ Himself suffered more than anyone.... In fact, sometimes it seems that our lives are more difficult because we are trying to live our faith. Following the Savior will not remove all of your trials. However, it will remove the barriers between you and the help your Heavenly Father wants to give you.” (end quote)
Elder M. Russell Ballard |
I’ve always
loved the Book of Mormon story of Alma and his people who fled into the
wilderness and were eventually captured by the Lamanites and forced to labor
for them. But the Lord, instead of immediately rescuing them from the
Lamanites, he first helped them handle their burdens:
In Mosiah, Chapter 12, verse 15: And now it
came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were
made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their
burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the
will of the Lord.”
Elder D. Todd Christofferson |